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Posted on: 2012-06-10

Posted by: apil karki.

Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together. Only faggot does that, real man once they kick they neva look back. So its not possible to be friends again.

Posted on: 2012-06-09

Posted by: aastha poudel

It's practically difficult to end a relationship either it is being boyfriend or a girlfriend but it is more difficult to translate love in friendship. In my view it's impossible to attached with a same person as a friend with whom you were in love once ,it may be possible for those who have end there relationship because they were not that much comfort with each other to be in a relationship of love but can be simply be friend.But being friend also cannot work out as the reason was incomfortability or incommon feeling so it's better not be friend after break-up.

Posted on: 2012-06-08

Posted by: Rashmi Agrawal

Love is something that never dies. Though Break up, one still has feeling for another. Even though two people break up, they can never erase what they felt or still feel for each other. When the relationship ends, they cannot bear the pain of separation and being friends after the break up will remind them of that pain time and again. So its better to get detached from the pain. Though it depends on individual because I myself have seen my friends being friend with their Ex but I can say its never easy. Its better to remove the disease permanently than to suffer. "Lets Just be friends" is easier said than done. In lovers turned friends relationship, friendship can never sustain.

Posted on: 2012-06-08

Posted by: Ren Asha

When boyfriend and girlfriend cannot continue their relation due to several causes they have no other choice except breaking up their relationship.Breaking up is really painful.It might be possible for the strong hearted people to accept their loved mates as 'just a friend' where as there are people who cannot.It depends upon the nature of the person and 'break up' reasons.It is really difficult to forget all the moments you spent with your loved ones.Even after break up you cannot delete every feelings that once touched your heart and you felt it as the most beautiful moments in your life.If you can kill all those feelings then surely broken up pairs can become just friends.As you have to go along with time you have to turn yourselves according to the needs of time.If time says only friendship then yes,only friendship!

Posted on: 2012-06-08

Posted by: ramesh bhujel

no i dont think its possible cause they were once in love and its quite hard to forget the relation and just be friends

Posted on: 2012-06-08

Posted by: GREEN EYES

NO NEVER NOT...

Posted on: 2012-06-07

Posted by: Kabita Luitel

love turns into friendship Relationship keeps on changing but love again into friendship...It is really difficult and a little bit funny but not impossible.If time demands then a boyfriend and a girlfriend must give up their relatonship.They should try to be good friends only,"just friends".Being friends only two persons are not seperated from each other as a true friend is one soul in two bodies. Everything is going good,a boyfriend care for his girlfriend,he love her too much and girlfriend also do the same.They both do everything for each other that usually two lovers do but suddenly if time and situation demands breakup in this relationship. I think a boy friend and his girlfriend can be just friends.It is obvious that they will face some funny and difficult situation but also being a friend only they cam talk to each other for long time,share their feelings and help each other in the time of problems.Just the problem occurs that thet have to change their behaviour that they used to have before.Their talking style,way of smiling,expecting something more day by day,the way of expressing their feelingsshould be changed.Everything is possible if our try is true.For this we should keep our beloved one a little or some inches far from us.The words they used to say to their beloved one should be replaced by something else.Then,slowly love again turns into friendship like at first how friendship had turned into love.Just a boy friend and girl friend should trust eachother,they do not need atleast a word to talk but a simple expression through eyes is sufficient.Because of somethind bad if relatonship changes then no matter a true friend is always there for us holding our hands forever and a true friendship never change it's policy and state.Friendship is not so risky like love.Friends and friendship,It is just really beautiful. Yours sincerely, Kabita Luitel Class-X Saraswati Academy English School

Posted on: 2012-06-07

Posted by: paribartan....modern nepal college

i am surprised how can you live without your near one...i would rather live a single life..bt i cant accept anyone other than my girl... and if then she break our relation i couldnt accept her as a best friend coz those memories which has been a part of my life once will haunts me every time and i beleive my girl will never leave me...i love you lots kanchu...

Posted on: 2012-06-07

Posted by: Grishma Poudyal

Today, relationship and break_ups has been a common issue to talk about. Being in relationship first, loving each other like there's no world around the then slowly creating misunderstanding among themselves and breaking up. In my opinion, being in relationship is so uncertain that we never know what will happen. Basically this topic has a big issue among youngsters today. Relating this context, in my view, i think an ex-lovers can never remain as "just" friends. The feelings they had shared , their intimacy and in some cases physical relation also matters alot. Apart from this, as time heals everything those two ex-lovers can just move on but i don't think they can only remain as friends. The couple who were so in love once cannot at once be friends. Not at all. Friendship changes to love but love does not fall back to friendship. So, in my view, a broken up couples cannot be "just" friends.

Posted on: 2012-06-07

Posted by: Anish simkhada

Yes it is possible , but one thing is important that thing is , by what that breaking up take place . Then, by minor thing that breaking up take place then the boy friend and girlfriend should sit in place and they should talk , about their relationship.Then, they should talk about their relationship and how to start again. They should friend at frist and again their relationship can be start , smoothly and strongly like sustainable develpoment.so it is possible to be friend . In my point of view.

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Breaking up with your girlfriend or boyfriend is perhaps very difficult to deal with, but time heals everything. Nonetheless, after the break up, is it really possible to ‘just’ be friends with the same person who were once in love? Explain.