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Posted on: 2012-07-22

Posted by: bikram yadav

pre-mariatal sex is considered as a taboo in our society. yes it may have become the part of our lives but it may create many problems in our mariatal life. especially in case of the females their life partner may take it as a betrayal from her side. eventually this may cause a unhappy relationship between the life partners. this is a taboo but in some cases like pre mariatal sex with a partner who is going to be their life partner is not considered to be a taboo if everthing goes right. in my view pre mariatal sex must be avoided to have a healthy married life

Posted on: 2012-07-19

Posted by: sita

well i don't think so pre-martial sex is bad but it should be safe and sound....

Posted on: 2012-07-19

Posted by: jasmine

looking from our social prespective it is indeed not considered good to go for pre-marital sex before marriage......... i would certainly not approve to it for some teenagers who are not sure about life and partner.. but if its the case between two mature person who are self independent and are cautious then i see no problem in that. but they should make sure that the consequences of it they have to face it..........

Posted on: 2012-07-17

Posted by: rushika ban

supposed as taboo esp in our society all the teenager should be made aware of its bad impact.being mbbs student i think it iz curse on the view of health aspect.invites innumerable sexual diseases also the main issue is unsafe safe resulting in abortion..abortion in early age invites life long health risk like infertility in female.the pleasure for short period can bring lifelong problems..students deviate from studies.so i think its great responsibility of parents to closely observe their growing children activities n guide them..parents can be the best friends for their kids and make aware of the ill practices so that our young generation never fall into prey in such activities.

Posted on: 2012-07-17

Posted by: Swagat Gongal, Palpa

In the traditional and orthodox societies like ours, pre-marital sex has always been a taboo for the society. The society doesn't approve having sexual relations before nuptial ceremony and I don't contradict either. The longing for an intercourse may be extraordinarily violent but these few rules of the society is what marks human beings from other living beings. The ideal society yearns for discipline and self-motivation from its members at the loss of which it's no longer a human society. So, it's always wise to have these good rules and wiser not to manipulate it for the sake of being called as modern society. And though the thing may defend itself as ground reality of the changing culture in the society, we need to make sure we don’t get weaken by any of its narrow reasons.

Posted on: 2012-07-16

Posted by: gaunle

It exists everywhere and anywhere, but only thing is, it is not highlighted as people feel embarrassed to talk about it.

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Question

We may deny it or try to look elsewhere, but pre-marital sex is very much a part of our reality. Though it is considered taboo in our society, it is a part of our social fabric. What is your take on it? Give reasons.