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Posted on: 2012-01-16

Posted by: Swesha parajuli

Man is a social well-being.He cannot live alone.It is natural to human being to maintain good and warm relationship with their neighbours.Life is full of ups and downs.we have to face many problems in our life.so we have to take help from our neighbours at the time of need.But at the same time,in the name of help some people interfare in others personal matters.It is not a good thing. If I have to deal the situations that I have to maintain the relations with my neighbours but at the same time if I have to tell them to mind their own business, I would hold this situations properly. I would politely request them not to do so and do their own business.Similarly, I would try to make them understand that interfare in others personal matters hamper theirselves and loose their precious time, personal gravity and develop negative impact in the mind of concerned neighbours. If an immediate action is not taken about this situations it may convert better relationship into bitter.

Posted on: 2012-01-16

Posted by: srijana tiwari

having a close knit is neighbors has become a history in today's era. with growing population and busy schedule people hardly are in close connection with the neighbors as it used to be before. neighbors are like so important in our life. sometimes they can be troublesome. they are the ones who's going to be witness of everything that happens in our life till the end. at times they provide helping hands and sometimes they make our life a total misery. so in order to maintain the balance, we should set some boundaries and frankly let them know their limitations. it may sound impractical but its our life and our decisions. many times their interference adds more oil to the fire. we should let them know what may happen to us can happen to them or anyone tomorrow. who knows. so they should act neighbors and know their places in others life. we can successfully deal with such situations when we can act wisely and open up our horizon to others broadly.there is a way to deal with everything, so if we all are human beings and tend to understand each other , the relationship will always blossom with no any hindrances. we should believe "LIVE AND LET LIVE".

Posted on: 2012-01-16

Posted by: sangeeta bhandari

Dealing with neighbors isn't an tough phenomena.If the ridiculous situation arises then its better to deal in a amicable way and take the matter in a wide way .Neighbors are the part of living so we should behave in a wise way.

Posted on: 2012-01-15

Posted by: Juna Rajkarnikar Narayanhitipath

Nepali society do have close knit with the neighbours but now a days it is rarely seen at the times of need. But there are still times when we have to tell them to mind their own business as they show concerns. Our neighbours around us seems more self sufficient than us. As to my own experience we hardly talk when we cross each other but at times when they meet my mother they tend to ask all. I personally do not bother and ask people of their personal matters and and also want them to feel less bothered and we are of no help for each other at times of need.

Posted on: 2012-01-10

Posted by: sonu maharjan

we first request politely to to put their sound a little lower as we will not be disturbed. we explain them that rights and duties are the two sides of one coin as they have rights to do what they likE at the same time they should follow their duties.....

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Living in a Nepali society, having a close knit with the neighbours is obvious. This can really be helpful at times of need. But they can really be nosy. You have to maintain the relation, but at the same time have to tell them to mind their own business politely. How will you deal with such situation? Explain.